Saturday, December 30, 2006

Harry's Latest Milestones

So as you can see, Harry is saying things like "Ba-Ba" and yes it is adorable. :-) He is going through another incredibly cute stage at the moment. He has also cut his first tooth! Also an exciting moment. We waited and waited for the appearance of the tooth. For months he has been chewing on everything and drooling profusely. Everyone was convinced that he MUST be teething. Recently, however, he also started to pull on his ears - another sign according to "them." And why would they lie? :-) However, there was still no appearance of any teeth. Then he stopped pulling on his ears and everything seemed very status quo. The other day we put our thumb on his gums and low and behold, there is was. It is just the top of a tooth. But it is there! He is also getting himself ready to crawl. He has been sitting and then launching himself forward into the crawling position. Unfortunately, he is then not sure what to do. So inevitably ends up bellyflopping and looking a bit like a turtle who is shell side up. But he turns himself over and heads in another direction, grunting and rolling to get there. So our days of putting him in one place and him staying there are quickly coming to and end. It is so exciting to see our little Harry finding himself and becoming more aware of the world. He is clearly learning about "object permanence" (the idea that something still exists even if it is out of site) because he will drop something over the side of his high chair and then crane his neck to try and see it. The craning of the neck is a very adult body movement and a reminder of where we are going. Our little baby is turning into a little boy, day by day. There is part of me that is sad. But there is part of me that is sad about no longer being pregnant. :-) So I might as well get used to it. A bigger part of me is so excited for him and for us as we three sail into the uncharted waters of creating a family and our own little Holden-Brown nucleus.

Friday, December 29, 2006

Harry says "Ba-ba"

Harry's First Christmas!


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When you have a 6 month old it is hard to know what they appreciate about an event like Christmas. But here are my musings. There is no doubt that he was aware of the hubbub. All the people coming and going. The activity. The cooking. For the most part he responded to this with enthusiasm and smiles. (We did have a bit of a melt down on Christmas night where it all got to him. But otherwise, he behaved like a champ as per usual.) He was definitely aware of the hat he had to wear. When it wasn't down around his eyes, he was happy with this prospect - to which the picture attests. He was definitely aware of all the presents and there were lots of them. However, it seemed his appreciation was mostly for the paper. Wow, was the paper popular! It can be torn and more importantly, eaten if an unsuspecting parent isn't paying very close attention. (No, he didn't actually eat any but he had a really good try. :-) ) What I hope that he took away from the experience was the love we all felt and that it surrounded and protected him on this special day. I am sure that Christmases to come will be very different and filled with more appreciation for what is actually going on. But I hope that the love that was present this year will be a constant no matter what else changes.

Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Our Brush with Russian Espionage

Being the busy mother that I am I do not have a lot of time to keep up with current events. Whilst this is a source of concern to me, this is the topic of an entirely different blog post. So back to the matter at hand....Because I am so busy my following of current events tends to be limited to scanning the headlines on Yahoo as I rush from one baby-related task to the other. So I had seen the headlines regarding a Russian spy who had died, that radiation was involved, and that they were concerned about contamination of some planes. However, my knowledge of it stopped there. This lack of interest was probably fuelled by a general brain addling that is known to occur with sleep deprivation. However, my attention was focused after talking to my aunt Julia a couple of weeks back when she asked whether I had followed the case. I told her I hadn't and asked why she was wondering. She then told me something that launched me head first into the world of Russian espionage.....my experience with which had been very much limited to books and movies until that point. What she told me was that apparently the hotel that Dan and I had stayed in during our stay in London was the one where the radiation poisoning of the former KGB spy had occurred. Initially I didn't panic. I hadn't followed things closely enough so I figured I would do some research. So when I got off the phone I trawled the news sites of the latest. What I learned was that the poisoning had occurred on November 1st. We arrived at the hotel on the 5th.....I still wasn't to worried....The poisoning took place in the bar and 7 bar employees had been found to be exposed......What a minute.....we had spent a bit of time in the bar......Whilst my concern was not really for myself, my motherly instincts were definitely starting to rear up for Harry. Julia calls back saying that the National Health Service in England has asked that all people staying at the Millennium Hotel should come in for radiation testing. At this point, my motherly instincts go ballistic. I insist that Dan contact the conference organizer to find out what they know. In the meantime I try to find out more online. However, my motherly instincts sidetrack me and I race downstairs to argue that we should call the pediatrician immediately. Dan sweetly and calmly says that he is sure we are all fine. But I insist that he call. The catch was that at this point in the day it was after hours. So it was a matter of calling and leaving a message for the pediatrician. Dan asked whether we should wait for morning. I, however, argued that this was radiation we were talking about and our baby. Need one say more. So he dutifully calls and leaves a message that sounded very much like a crank call. "Hi, this is Dan Brown, Harry Holden-Brown's father....we were on vacation in England and we think that we might have been exposed to radiation in the hotel we were staying in and we were wondering what we should do. Please call us back...." Whilst we anxiously pace the floor we go over what we know and don't know about radiation poisoning, how much time we spent in the bar (only about 5 minutes since the British as so fond of smoking) and generally berating ourselves for being bad parents and exposing our baby to radiation (even though there was no way we could have known.) In the course of this process, Dan stops his pacing to check email. A response back from the conference organizer! He checks it. The response - yes, the hotel that we were staying at was the Millennium Gloucester. The poisoning occurred at the Millennium Mayfair. Not the same hotel. Dan and I are so gleeful that we do a little "Yay, we don't have radiation poisoning" dance around the room and hug our baby with such abandon that Harry wonders if hi parents have lost their minds. It was SUCH a relief! We weren't "bad" parents after all for taking our son across the ocean. Thank goodness! Then, however, we realize......we called the pediatrician! AND AFTER HOURS! Dan tells me that my "punishment" for making him call is that I have to answer it. We wait with baited breath for the call.....giggling with embarrassment....he calls. I tell him, sheepishly, that we had made a mistake and we are terribly sorry for bothering him. He says he is relieved because he wasn't sure what to tell us anyway! Call the State Department, maybe? So alls well that ends well, thank goodness! Who knew that we would have anything to do with an international spy/radiation story. All I can say though, is how grateful we are that it was only the slightest of connections and what a great story to be able to tell and laugh over.

Our Trip to England - Nov 2006

So, I know that it has taken me a really long time to get to this post. But I can't let the demands of motherhood let keep me from recording the wonderful moments with our beautiful boy....so to our trip. In early November, Dan and I took the plunge and went with Harry to England. We were really worried that the trip wouldn't go well...that Harry would get sick and act out. In other words, the general worries of any parent traveling with a new baby. Well....a lot of our fears were overblown. One, he didn't act out. On the way there we barely knew we had a baby with us. He basically slept the whole way. On the way back, a woman who was sitting near us congratulated us on having such a wonderful baby. So we returned home beaming about our beautiful boy. Harry did, however, get sick whilst we were away - he picked up the chest cold that I had had for a while. He sounded terrible. But according to the British doctor that we were able to see, for free, care of the National Health Service and the British taxpayer, he was a healthy looking boy and he seemed to pull through without harm and in generally good humor.

We had such a wonderful time on our trip. We started in London. Dan had a conference he was presenting for and so we arrived a couple of days early and used it to walk around and get a sense of London. We had a wonderful time and Harry charmed people at every opportunity. Two days after arriving my uncle Tim and aunt Julia drove up from Devon to pick Harry and me up. My aunt Julia took us to all of the sites around the home in Budleigh Salterton. We had a wonderful time eating (fish and chips, pies, fudge, cream tea) and talking and generally fussing over Harry. They made us feel so welcome in their home and it was great to spend time with family. Dan came down to join us a few days later. We took Harry to a castle and walked along the beachfront in Budleigh. All in all a fantastic time. The journey home was a long one - taking us nearly 24 hours to complete. But we made it home in one piece and with a babe who we loved even more for being such a charmer the entire time we were away.

Monday, December 11, 2006

Harry Turns 6 Months! Starts Solids! And Is Sleeping Better!

So Harry passed a couple of big milestones in the last week. One, he had his 6 month birthday on Saturday! Two, he started on solids! Three, he has started sleeping better at night! These are all big things. Reaching 6 months just happened. The other two were more planned. We decided to hold off on starting solids until he was 6 months. Somehow, it seemed like a big step. Probably because his mummy views it as the beginning of the end of her little boy being a baby, more than anything else. But she just has to get over herself because there are such exciting times ahead. Harry seems to be excited about the prospect of solids - he kicks and smiles when he sees me with the bowl and spoon. However, when he actually eats the rice cereal he seems to wonder what all the fuss is about. But he is taking it in stride and seems ready to explore the world of food - something that his parents are anticipating with glee.

The sleeping hurdle was harder won. We had reached a place that was not good from a sleeping perspective with Harry needing a parent to soothe him every time he woke up in the night and that was starting to become every 15 minutes. So we took a step that we thought we would never take as parents - we let him cry it out. It was more out of desperation. We were all so tired - Dan, Harry and myself. The process has sucked! It has been the hardest thing I have ever done as a parent, with perhaps the exception of seeing Harry being taken off for his circumcision. But as with that, the pain is temporary and we are better off in the long term. We seem to have conquered the night time sleep problems - with Harry sleeping seven and a half hours straight last night without waking up and no crying. (Hopefully I am not jinxing things for tonight now. :-) ) So now we are turning our attention to daytime sleep. This is more of a challenge with a babe who is very alert and doesn't want to miss a thing. However, I have hope that we will get there. Everyone being well rested is such an important thing. Harry's personality was starting to change into a babe who was not the sweet, mellow, and laid back baby we knew. Fortunately, as our sleep deficit has decreased, his wonderful disposition is returning, which makes the pain we are all going through seem worth it. Parenting is not an easy process and one realizes that sometimes one has to do things for your child that are not easy but are critical as far as their long term development is concerned. All we can do is make sure that he knows we love him and provide him with the sense of security that we will always be there for him to help whilst he grows up.