Saturday, February 24, 2007

Contraband Pictures of Harry Swimming

Today Harry had his second swimming lesson. We decided that we would not follow the rules and refrain from taking pictures until the last class for a number of reasons. One, Harry LOVES swimming and we just had to share. Two, Dan will not be in town for Harry's last class. Three, we have recorded practically every other event in Harry's life so why should this be any different. Four, it seems like a pretty silly rule. :-) So here is Harry and me in the pool today. We went under water for the first time!!!! We did it twice. The first time he didn't seem to really notice. The second time he spluttered a bit but otherwise seemed unphased by it. Once again he had a grand old time. Splashing and playing in the water - didn't seem to notice that he was learning the whole time. It was really cute.

Harry Update: He says "Ma-Ma"

So last night Harry said "Ma" but today he said "Ma-Ma" and sent his mother's heart to the moon and back again. My little babe! :-)

Harry says "Ma!" And Eats Finger Food!

I notice that a lot of the posts I make to the blog have exclamation points after them.....but I guess that is just the nature of motherhood. Everything your child does seems worthy of an exclamation point. :-) Anyway....on to the news! :-) Yesterday (Feb 22nd) Harry said "Ma." Now he didn't say Ma-Ma. (We can work on that. :-) ) However, he did say a clearly discernible "ma." So we are on our way! Yay! Can't tell you how excited it made me. The "ma" sound is much harder than "ba" or "da" since it involves a lot more lip action and actual vocalization and no, I know it wasn't "context appropriate." (In other words, he wasn't looking at me and saying "ma" and referring to me. He was just saying it.) But the fact that he said it means that it will eventually be context appropriate! Can't tell you how much I needed a ray of hope yesterday. It was a tough day. Harry has been struggling with constipation AND teething of late and it is a double whammy that makes him grisly, touchy and difficult. It also means he doesn't sleep much. Oh yay! :-) So his "ma" vocalization was cause for MUCH excitement. :-) I love him so much and it always makes me feel so awful when we have difficult days like that. One has this view of motherhood that somehow one has failed if one has days where one doesn't get along. But I guess it is natural that even babies have good days and bad days. So I know I shouldn't take it personally and as a reflection on me. But at the same time, it is difficult not to when one's "job" is to make sure one's baby is healthy and more importantly happy.

In other news, Harry also had his first try of finger foods! Given the constipation we decided to start with cheese - namely Monterrey Jack cheese. I cut it up and since we were at our friend's Kevin's house, we held it out in our hand and offered it to him. At first he didn't get that he was supposed to put it in his mouth. So he picked it up in his fingers, squished it - great pincer grasp developing there, by the way - and promptly dropped it on the floor. (I tried to keep track of the cheese but I hope that poor Kevin doesn't have little bits of Jack cheese on his floor today. Sorry Kevin! :-) ) But then we put it in his mouth and the light bulb went off. He didn't eat a lot of it. However, he did put some in his mouth and mash it around. It was very cute to see. We will attempt to capture it on video because it is cute to see - one of those really adult looking things that is a constant reminder of how our baby is slowly growing up.

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

An Update on Harry! He turned 8 months!

So Harry turned 8 months about 10 days ago AND he is now crawling! He started a couple of weeks ago - and yes, I do feel guilty about not posting something sooner. Trying to keep up on all the ways to record progress can be tough at times - photos, blog, email etc - mixed in with the need to maintain personal hygiene etc. Anyway....here we are. So he is crawling. He started just before my mum left at the end of January. Now he is moving across a room in the blink of an eye. So baby proofing is now in our midst. I am not sure what philosophy we are going to adopt. Probably, like everything else, something in the middle - we won't go all out but we will do something. We will see. :-) Harry is also making his way through the solid foods - not without some hiccups along the way. (Who knew that a baby's bowl movements could be the source of such interest, concern, anxiety, and study.) At this point he has done the cereals - rice, oatmeal and barley. We started him on bananas (which he liked) as his first fruit/veggie. We then moved on to:
- Peas (Wasn't sure about at first but then liked)
- Sweet Potatoes (LOVED instantaneously - can't get it in fast enough)
- Carrots (Likes, not crazy about though)
- Avocado (Hates with a burning passion that causes much arm waving and angry grunting. Would be a horrible sight in an adult, in an 8 month old, it is probably the cutest thing you have ever witnessed. One has to suppress the urge to try giving it to him again just to see the reaction. :-) )
- Apples (Likes a lot)
- Pears (Likes a lot)
- Plums (Would eat but not with much enthusiasm. Upon trying them myself, which I have done with all of his food since I think it is important that I know what the things he eats taste like, I can't really blame him)
- Prunes (Likes but only when mixed in with other things. Given his recent "issues" it is a good thing that prunes remain on the like list since he needs to be on a maintenance diet of prune juice these days.)
- Winter Squash (Likes - but what is winter squash any way?)
- Raspberries (Really likes)
We are now at the end of the options we can try using jarred food. So Mummy will have to swing into baby food making action. I think we are going to try him on potatoes next and see how it goes. Hopefully no arm swinging and grunting is in our future. But then again.....

In terms of other developments.....he is saying Da-Dee, which of course, makes Dan's heart swell with pride. He politely watches us when we prompt him to say "Ma-Ma" and then either says Ba-Ba or Da-Da. Oh well. Mummy will just have to wait. He has also got the pincer grasp down pat now - the process of pinching the index finger and thumb together - a "wonderful" skill when applied to the soft flesh of his mother's underarm. :-) He is just on the verge of cutting a top tooth! We can't wait for it to finally break through since he has been trying his parent's patience the last couple of days. He puts everything in sight in his mouth and just is generally not a very happy camper. But we understand his discomfort so we give him a break. :-)

We went to his first swimming lesson this past weekend. He had SO much fun. As did his parents. Unlike our experience at Gymboree where the parents left something to be desired and it felt rushed and competitive, swimming was just a joy. Harry kicked and laughed and smiled his way through it. Taking the big pool in stride and having a high old time. We were told we couldn't take pictures until the last class but the experience was so positive that I think we will tempt the wrath of the instructor and take pictures next week. We have to document and share this great experience.

His sleeping is a bit of a mixed bag. Most nights he sleeps 9 hours straight. Sometimes he wakes up. But most of the time he just sleeps through. Napping is still not great. There are days where he takes two long naps. And then there are days where getting him to sleep a half hour is a struggle. Not sure what the pattern is - believe me we have tried everything to figure it out but the answer remains illusive. Oh well. He has to keep his parents on their toes.

The thing that constantly amazes me is how much he changes from day to day - often growing in the night and suddenly taking on a new skill. I can't believe that his first year is going by so fast. It is distressing on the one hand because I don't want it to be done. But on the other, each day brings new challenges and joys and I can't wait to experience those with him. Being a mother is a journey that I never imagined could be so incredible, my love for Harry so deep and I know that those feelings will only grow with each passing day. So bring it on! :-)

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Harry is Officially Named!!!

On the 20th of January 2007 Harry Benjamin Holden-Brown was officially named at a small ceremony we held at our house. There were many preparations and we were quite exhausted following - hence the long period between the event and this post. But we are now starting to recover and bask in the glow of the achievement. It was a beautiful day. Everything went off like clockwork. There was a lot of preparation that went into it. James, Becky, Eric and my Mummy were all instrumental in making it happen - working until 2am the night before. But we pulled it off. The house looked beautiful. The chuppa that we decided to make as an improvisation for the ceremony turned out better than expected. The ceremony that we wrote, with some minor flow issues, worked really well. Everyone said some really beuatiful things and as expected I was very teary eyed through most of it. I think all in all it was a great day and we welcomed Harry with aplomb. We had a full house the night of the ceremony. Mickey and Harold - one set of my godparents - made the journey up from North Carolina and were staying with us along with my grandfather and sister, Dan's sister Lisa who had come from Boston and my mum. So there was lots of laundry post the event which I have only recently finished. The great thing is that we have wonderful memories of the day and of the things that everyone said. There is no doubt in my mind that it was a good thing we did and that we would have regretted had we not done it. We also started Harry out right with all of the adults in his life committing to love and cherish him all of his days. What more could he ask for.